max writes on the Defending Denial post:
“Not snooping seems reasonable; I try to practice that myself (as part of the Golden Rule), but sometimes the alarm is triggered and the defense grid goes up.”
I read that and realized in the same circumstance my defense grid goes down, in effect flooding the person.
It is a Saturn Neptune defense.
What does your “defense grid” look like, how does it function? Where is Saturn in your chart?