In astrology, once through the 7th house , you hit the 8th.
In the 7th house, you marry. In the 8th house, you go deeper.
In the 8th house, people grapple with pathology. Their pathology, their partner’s pathology or whatever.
At this stage people often want to blame the relationship, but in reality, marriage does not create a person’s disposition, it reveals it.
This can be horrifying of course, especially when you look in the mirror!
Have you met parts of yourself that give you pause?