I have a question regarding Venus in Aquarius and commitment phobia. I’ve been seeing a man that I really like since November, but he keeps getting cold feet. I don’t have a whole lot of patience for this as I have had to deal with abandonment & cheating, etc in the past. I definitely have trust issues. So was wondering if continuing to pursue this would be a nightmare for me (astrologically?)
You’re right, this man has every freedom, space-loving aspect in the book. You have a desire to control and a need for perfection. You’ll probably be a nightmare for each other, over time.
Also, this man is 20+ years older than you and you’re 30-something. He’s an old dog. Generally speaking, they rarely learn new tricks. This goes double if the dog has a lot of planets in Fixed signs. That’s the case here.
You say you’re impatient and have trust issues. These are significant things to try to overcome. You’d probably have an easier time with someone more reassuring.