My whole life I’ve encountered men and women who try to dominate me, or play power games with me. I’m not actually the wimp I seem. I have a Capricorn sun and a Taurus moon but most people only see my Gemini ascendant and Venus in Aquarius. My husband is a Taurus. He’s never has these issues with people. People are very respectful around him.
Is there anything in a natal chart that causes a person to attract a lot of negative attention or boundary pushers?
Hi, Capricorn. I think you’re looking at this from the wrong angle. When you meet something unpleasant, over and over, it’s a sign that it’s your problem to solve.
Capricorns are known for their boundaries and their backbone. If this is happening to you, it’s because you’ve not developed yourself. It’s a call to mature and let me be clear; I speak from experience.
When I first started blogging, almost twenty years ago, I would freak, whenever someone said something mean. I would take my whole blog down and retreat to lick my wounds. I was really wounded. It hurt! I used to ask, why do people do this to me? Why me and not the other person. I also wondered why no one ever helped me.
Lucky for me, someone suggested, “Maybe they think you can defend yourself?”
Eureka! I decided to test this out.
I began to fight back and push back. I learned to block people and to defend my right to defend myself and my site. I have Capricorn too and guess what? I am running this!
If people are mistaking you as a featherweight, it’s because you’re not living your own sun. You are the one, walking around like an airy wisp.
You can solve this by taking responsibility (Capricorn). It’s up to you to draw the line. Once you do, you’ll have problem holding it. Everyone knows, Taurus only moves one inch per millennium!
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