Married 3 times…the first when I was 18, he was 57, two beautiful children, he died at 78 from Alzheimer’s. It was a marriage of love but he couldn’t make a living…I was the provider.
Married 5 years after his death. After 3 years I ended it as a familiar pattern emerged…I again was the provider.
Married now to another very talented man who again cannot make a living…
My question is what in my chart inclines me to choose these men??? Just a hint of insight would be amazing.
Three Dependent Husbands
I knew you were a Sagittarius by your writing…which runs…I edited out an ellipsis here and there…I hope you don’t mind! I have Mercury in the 9th…I understand!
You asked for a hint of insight. I can tell you exactly what causes this. See that Moon in Libra at the top of your chart? You are BIG MOM.
You don’t necessarily choose the men. They choose you. They are looking for BIG MOM and there you are.
Secondary to that, it’s all your Sagittarius (generous) in the 12th house (sacrifice). Let’s take your first marriage…
He was an old man! You had to know on some level, that you would have to accommodate his age, eventually. He fulfilled you in that you became a mother. You sacrificed to do it. That’s the essence of your chart, right there.
If you’re no longer into this gig, you can change this pattern by giving yourself in service, where you’re the authority figure.
For example, there is a chapter of Saint Vincent De Paul at my church. Lots of people volunteer…but there is one MOM who runs it all. That’s the position that would suit you.
Basically, you’re a mother looking for kids. Those kids don’t have to be husbands!
Do you marry dependents as well? Can you identify the reason why?
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