I mentioned the priest’s remark about my development, out of context. There was enough interest in the post, I thought I’d elaborate, because it’s interesting and it ties in my last two posts.
We were talking to the priest about our marriage, but really, about marriage in general.
From a Catholic standpoint, married people are in it together. One partner cannot just run off ahead to leave the other behind. They also can’t trample one another and expect to get anywhere. They simply have to consider each other at all times because they are joined.
If both parties believe (Sagittarius) this, it creates a strong foundation (Saturn). The partners fare well if they help each other to grow and develop.
The key thing is the tie. If the tie is not there, the mutual commitment, the shared belief, then I don’t know what you have. But nobody wins a two-legged race without considering their partner. So if you want to develop yourself, you’ve got to help your partner develop, provided you have this kind of commitment.
How comfortable are you with the idea of having to move in tandem with another?