“Yes! I am attracted to taboo and also want the security and status and loyalty a marriage provides. True intimacy is always scary and treacherous so I can be committed still have my edge.
The biggest impediment to finding resolution to this type challenge is realizing what is in you. You have to uncover your true desires, bring them to your consciousness and integrate this stuff into your life.
Painful, maybe. But very, very fruitful and productive.”
Who can relate? Tell us of your success or failure.