A client asked me about chasing men. I told her that I don’t, I wouldn’t and I never have.
Now granted, I have a yin chart and she did not. I mentioned this but I distinctly remember announcing this when I was 19-ish: “I do not chase men!” The whole idea was and still is abhorrent to me. It makes my skin crawl. Who the is this man, that I’m supposed to campaign for him?
I suppose this may be considered, old-fashioned but I think it’s just a blip in time where people think women fare well chasing men. I don’t think they fare well at all… over time.
You may chase a man and get the man but three weeks later or three years later, some gal who does not chase men walks by… his head turns and there he goes, following her like a dog. Then what do you have for your trouble?
It’s the Capricorn in me, I guess. I will invest in substance. And my Libra. I will commit to someone who is committed to me. If someone is interested in me, I may be interested in them but hell with freeze over before I chase a man, even one inch.
People rarely value that which is handed to them. Sputter if you like. Some things never change.
Do you have a policy when it comes to courting?