I’ve been reading some of your posts in reference to Scorpio manipulation. I’m looking for the path to freedom of my mind. My Scorpio man isn’t having sex with me and we normally have sex every day. I know that the truth cannot be questioned. Truth is truth. I’m an Aries sun and Pisces Moon. I need sex. I even asked him if he could relieve my stress and he denied me sex. The only time I’ve denied him sex is after a recent argument. Any other time, if he wants me, I give myself to him every time. When we argue lately, he tells me lets just stop wasting each others time. I don’t know what the hell that means because I’ve been so invested into our relationship. Maybe too much?
Aries Woman / Pisces Moon
I have to say upfront, I can only speculate what’s going on here. I’m only hearing one side of a story and I don’t have the charts!
Scorpio does tend to withhold sex. You can search “withholding” on this blog. However, my husband has his moon in Scorpio. He’s pointed out to me, if a woman is berating a man, acting like a bitch and such, that same woman should not be surprised when he doesn’t want to touch her. It’s worth thinking about.
With that said, this man does seem to be playing games. I say that because of his remark about wasting time. If he feels he is wasting time with you, why is he there? He may be confused but more likely he’s acting to confuse you.
As for your giving him sex when he wants it; you may have different rule books on this. The idea that couples should provide each other with sex on demand come from the bible and is explicitly tied to marriage.
Your bringing this up makes me wonder if you are more invested in the relationship that he is. You’re “married” on some level but he is not. This may also explain his remark in regards to wasting time.
I don’t think you need to give up at this point. You’re clearly very interested in this man and he is there, willing to fight (or hash) this out with you at this time.
To pull the relationship back together, try to better understand the “miss” between you. And try to fix the sex thing on your end. It is unreasonable to just present yourself to a man and expect him to go to work on you… unless you’re in the kind of marriage where that really is the norm.
What do the rest of you think?
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