“My boyfriend has Saturn conjunct my Sun. Will he hold me back?”
Your boyfriend may hold you back. He may also be the best thing that ever happened to you!
If someone has Saturn aspecting one of your personal planets, they will have some authority over you.
They may be older or more experienced. They may be more educated or whatever form this takes. But you can’t tell from the chart how they might express this “advantage”. Will they be a mentor, an oppressor or a combination of both?
This aspect also works in both directions. The Saturn person tends to feel old and insecure at times. The young upstart may trigger these feelings.
Ultimately the onus is on the Saturn person to act responsibly and “do the right thing”. How well people manage this can be determined by their maturity level which has very little to do with age.
When you’re in a relationship with a Saturn aspect, ask yourself if you are being supported or crushed. Are you learning? Or are you being punished for youthfulness?
Is there someone in your life who chastises you? Check and see if their Saturn is in aspect to your personal planets and tell us about it!
Check out the synastry in your relationship!