A relationship of mine ended recently, and I can’t help but wonder what happened. It was truly the strangest situation I’ve ever been in with another person. I felt like we just couldn’t find a way to just tell each other how we felt and what we wanted. I don’t know who was more scared of being hurt: me or him.
I’ve been telling myself that it was probably my fault it didn’t work out, because I’m basically incapable of any type of serious relationship. But now I’m not so sure about that. Anyway I’ve basically moved on, so I’m just curious if I left behind something really good?
Curious & Confused
I don’t think you are incapable of a serious relationship. You’re challenged maybe, along with the rest of us. The problem with you and this is guy is this simple: you didn’t fit!!
Square peg, Round hole. Square peg. Round hole. Square peg. Round hole.
No matter how hard you try, this is never going to work but it does not follow that either of you are misshapen. I wouldn’t worry about it. It’s hard enough to keep something together when there is compatibility.
With your Saturn (a teacher) in the 7th house (partners), there are lessons to be learned from your relationships.
In this case the lesson in this: when you try to put a shoe on and your foot won’t go in, you need another shoe!