In the Finding And Keeping “The One”, Commitment-Phobia And Such I claimed that problems in relationship often resolve themselves if you give them time. People even out with each other, they come around, they morph, they learn, they come to understand both themselves and the other. I compare to the way people begin to look like their dogs over time.
This is not always a cute as the girl and the go in the picture. If it’s true the longer you stay with someone the more like them you become then you best hang out with people of character or you are bound to become just like them… over time.
Saturn. It’s actually more interesting than you think.
As for who morphs the most, Libra readily compromises in relationship. People who have Venus mashed with Neptune in some way (Venus in Pisces, Venus in the 12th, Venus in aspect to Neptune, etc.) also merge very readily.
Are you aware of any morphing between you and your partner?