I got thinking about this as I advised a Scorpio in consultation yesterday. She is trying to repair and restore a relationship that is very important to her and I think this is possible. These are all Libran ideas.
“Now I think this is a mistake but people do make mistakes. I think you can help people you love when they are making a mistake by not making any yourself! I am sure you understand.”
Did she even mean this or was this just her mouth moving when she’s tired and hurting? You can steady this by making sure what comes out of your mouth is well thought out. It will help her and ground her. In a way you are asking a ball of pain to do something which is… not likely to work.”
The reality is that it is very hard to be an unreasonable asshole when the other person is being sane so you be the sane one and perhaps you’ll find some real ground to stand on here.
The idea here is that YOUR behavior can and will alter theirs and you don’t have to be a bitch about it. Thinking of the other goes a long way!
What do you know about being nice?