I was talking to someone recently (in my real life). They lied to me. It was one of those Gemini lies. I knew immediately, the person was lying because they didn’t want to hear any remarks I might make. I got off the phone and thought about this, hard.
I decided not to ask this person things, they can’t answer without risking an unwelcome comment from me. It sounds kind of controlling, but it’s actually defensive. I don’t like how I feel when I hear this person lie.
I don’t think it would be a good idea to confront them. The way I see it, I can avoid talking to the person, or just avoid subjects that make them uncomfortable. I’m going with the latter.
A few days later, I was watching a tv program. One of the characters said, “It’s always easier to lie.”
I was struck by that, because I go out of my way not to lie. I’ll do just about anything to not be put in a position where I have to lie, say to protect someone’s feelings.
Now I see it takes courage to tell the truth. Saturn in Sagittarius. I have never viewed lying from this angle, but people say that all the time, don’t they. “It’s easiest, just to lie.”
How often to do you lie, because it’s easiest?