This is strange love but it’s very smart. I am posting this because I am inundated right now with people who are trying to make their relationships work and last (at long last). I figure someone can use these tips… this one and the other one I have on my mind for tomorrow. I got these tips from Venus-ruled Taureans who by all rights ought to know something about love.
A couple days ago the soldier told me something like this… “I really love living with you.”
I turned around and looked at him quizzically because it’s not how he talks. “What?” I asked. “You love what?”
“I love living here with you, Elsa.”
I stared at him just completely flummoxed. “I don’t understand. Why do you..? That doesn’t sound like you.”
“Yes, it’s me. I love living with you, I’m very happy,” he said, stiffly.
I raised an eyebrow. “I don’t know what you’re doing. Is there a punch line..?”
“No, I just thought I’d tell you that…”
It sounded like bullshit but he would not tell me the punch line so I just let it go and the next day he did it again. Again, it just sounded so strange, almost wooden coming out of him so I implored him to explain and he did.
He said that he had figured out that I was extreme. I’m an over the top person where as he is just “regular”. That’s what he calls himself… “Regular”. Like this:
“How are you doing?”
And he decided that I did not register regular behavior. He said he loved me but I could not tell at times because he was just regular when I was bigger than life so from now on he was going to try to express and convey his love for me in this way that is tailored to better register to me so that I can be happier and this is my point: Act like this and someone is going to love you.
What can you do to make your partner feel loved tonight?