Venus rules love and money. Venus in your chart show how you feel about these things, as well your experiences in these realms.
I made some videos on the concept of what I call “currency” when it comes to love. All people do not love the same thing! What you do love can be considered to be your currency.
Just imagine someone showing up to court you to try and win your love. Their success depends on what currency they have to offer.
Some people are looking for money. If you have some, the person will consider loving you.
Others (like me) are looking for a thrill. If you can provide one, I will consider loving you.
Others want safety. If you come around offering loyalty and permanence, they will consider loving you… and so on.
People tend to assume that others value what they value. Consequently, they offer what they like to other people. They often become confused or even distraught when the thing they give is not valued.
As a example, I dated a string of millionaires when I was young (back when that was a lot of money). They just couldn’t function on why I was not interested in them, especially because I was poor.
I couldn’t function on why they couldn’t function, but the answer to the puzzle is simple. People have different values!
If you love someone… say if those men really loved me, they might have taken the time to discover what I did like and want. They might have tried to discern my currency was. But that didn’t happen and so there was a parting… many of them.
It’s pretty easy to discover a person’s currency if you want to. You can use astrology or you can just observe them. A person’s attitude towards love and money is something to note!
For example, some people are never satisfied with either (love or money). Some people are almost always satisfied with both. I am in the latter group. It’s odd when I hang around someone in the first group but when I’m with someone with an attitude similar to mine it’s very easy to get along.
I think this is stuff is interesting and also phenomenally helpful to understand.
What is your currency? What will win your love?