Leo Man and Gemini Woman Break Up After Three Years

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Hi Elsa,

My boyfriend and I of three years just ended our relationship. He is a Leo and needs a lot of attention; he’s a gigantic drama queen which made it hard to communicate. He is now on the rebound with one of his “friends” and basically he was already starting something with her before our relationship ended! I am so furious because it seems like he just hung on until something else came along and then realized we weren’t right for each other.

Actually I broke it off but he was acting like a total jerk the last two months of our relationship and was basically waiting for me to bring it up so it could be over and he could start his new relationship. Of course I am in the really painful stage right now because when one door closes, it takes time before the new ones open up.

Being that he’s a Leo and I’m a Gemini, his new girlfriend is a cancer. She and I are total opposites. Can you give me some insight as to how to get him back? I gave him a letter saying for him not to call and that I wouldn’t call, but I want to know that he still cares about me. Do you think he will ever call me? Or do you think his Leo pride will prevent him from EVER calling. Advice?

Gemini Ex
United States

Dear Gemini,

I don’t know if he is going to call you or not. I don’t know what is in his head but it does sound as if your relationship is ending and for that I am very sorry. Three years is a significant time to spend with a man and if you lose a relationship like this, pain and chaos are going to part and parcel.

If you read your mail closely, you say you are waiting for another door to open, but you also wish to get your old boyfriend back. Obviously it is going to have to be one or other. For the record, I think you could probably get this guy back but are you sure this is what you want?

You don’t sound sure to me and I would urge you to slow down and think this through. Because what you’ve got here is some heavy duty transits bring you to a cross-road. And it seems the universe is trying to separate you from this man, not otherwise. So if you run and get him back, will you want him? Make sure. Because you’re being asked to grow up here so let me tell you what that might look like.

“She’s got him, she stole him, I’m going to get him back!” vs “She’s got him, he took up with her before he ended his relationship, he manipulated the breakup, and you know what? She can have him.”

You are right. Another door will open, but not unless you shut this one. And the other door may lead you back to this guy, but again… not unless you shut the one you’re leaving open.

I say, shut the door, cry your tears, feel your emotions, take your time and then fish another line. If you are meant to be with this guy, you’ll catch him again but frankly he does not sound grown up enough to handle and guide you through the next two years which are going to be dominated by Saturn and Pluto transits. In other words, your life is about to get a lot more serious… you are going to grow right up and you may be better off with someone a bit more mature.

Good luck.

 

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Leo Man and Gemini Woman Break Up After Three Years — 3 Comments

  1. JUST BROKE UP W. MY LEO EX BOYFRIEND BECAUSE I FOUND A GIRL TEXT NESSAGE IN HIS PHONE… NOTHING TOO SERIOUS BUT HE DID CALL HER BABY SO I GUESS OT WAA…. WHO KNOWS BUT HIM AND HER HOWEVERR.. HE KEEPS CALLIN SAYING HES SORRY AND WABTA TO GET BACK TOGETHER BUT I KNOW I’LL BE A FOOL IF I ACTUALLY DO GET BACK WITH HIM ONLY BECAUAE ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYA A CHEATER.. I DO FORGIVE HIM AND WISH HIM THE BEST. HOWEVER I JUAT CANT SEE MY SELF WITH HIM ANYMORE… BESIDES THAT WE HAD A REALLY GREAT RELATIONAHIP. BUT ALL THINGS MUST COME TO AN END.

  2. Hi. I’m a strong willed Gemini woman dating a scorpio. At work I’m the boss but when we are home he will fight with me based on stuff that happened at work, can this relationship work. I love him how do I keep our relationship safe

  3. Men change but I see just how stubborn a Gemini women can be I am a Leo man and I lost my Gemini women recently we were together for 10 years but she broke up with me because of something I said 5 years ago during sex I called her my ex name by mistake and I sincerely apologize back then and hated myself for saying it and I have been kicking myself in the ass for it for 5 year she faked like she was trying to get over it and I gave her time over the years to heal we stayed together another 5 years but during that time every argument she brought up and I would ask her can you please get over it I’m am sincerely sorry for what I say and over the years I have been trying to fix it and thought I fixed it we would be happy at times and get along good back and forth so I thought we would be ok because we would say we love each other and be cool but 3 weeks ago we got into another argument my grandmother had just died and my mom wasn’t good so I was about to leave and go to Wisconsin to help my mom then she broke up with me for good after me apologizing for years and trying to fix things during the time when I was at a low she ended things so I left the house took all of my things I was out in the streets til I had to leave to go to Wisconsin we spoke on the phone and ahe said she hated me and why did you do that and I told her again just like I told her 5 years ago it was a bad mistake and she said when you love somebody you don’t make that mistake and I said your right but I told her look I was never proud of making that mistake and I hate myself because I messed up so bad but you have to believe me I’m truly sorry for messing up and I want to fix this so we can move on but she was so stubborn and told me you don’t love me and since you made this mistake watch me walk away and be happy with someone else I understand her hurt but she doesn’t understand stand mine because I want her back and I’m trying my best to win her back now and I don’t have a clue how to get her back

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