I wrote this for a client who has identified her pattern of choosing men who treat her badly…
“If you frame this as an addiction, you won’t be far off. I used to go to margarita night when I was young. Two drinks, I would feel GREAT. The third drink; I would drink half it and then promptly vomit. I didn’t have to vomit that many times before I learned to quit at two drinks!
I have Capricorn, like you. I don’t want to be embarrassed. To continue to choosing men like this would be embarrassing?
I am saying this to motivate you, but also to simplify the problem. Because it seems all sad and unsolvable. In reality it’s only sad so long as you keep doing it. Once you stop, you’ll have paid the price of education and you’ll be free…”
Who can relate?