I wrote this for a client today. This is a common situation:
“… Basically you serve and sacrifice for someone and they don’t return the favor. Balance is lacking. You do for them… they do for you. You do for them… they do for you.
You will have to enforce this yourself. Because if you give, give, give, people will take, take, take and you really can’t blame them. It’s like saying, want some free money? Well, yeah!”
It’s common, when people do give a lot, they tend to think the other person should reciprocate but this is erroneous. You can’t obligate another person by your giving.
This is a Saturn in Libra lesson. If you stop and think about it, you see the sense in it. You can’t enter me into a contract with you without my agreement. It has to be this way, otherwise someone could give me one hundred dollars and expect they own me for a day, or a week, or for the rest of my life. It just doesn’t work like that.
Do you have expectations of others they are utterly unaware of?