I mentioned my Libra people-pleasing in one of my newsletters. With Mars in Libra, I desire to be social. I do try to extend myself. In fact, I am entirely willing to stick my neck, way, way out… but there is a limit. There is a line.
I have quite a bit of Capricorn too. The Saturn influence provides me with a spine and pressure to follow certain rules (if I want to fare okay in life). These energies check each other.
I allow myself to behave in a superficial way… to play nice. But not at the cost of my integrity.
I can and will compromise, readily. But not if it means I have to lie.
This is a constant battle for me. Mars, right? But I’m glad I have the problem. I wouldn’t want to be wishy-washy-spineless, nor would I want to be a control-freak, boundary, walkin’.
Do you have a Libra / Capricorn conflict in your chart? How do you deal with it?