I am engaged to a Leo man. He’s fantastic to me, but he has a very bad temper. Sometimes he says he doesn’t love me, but afterwards he says he didn’t mean it! I love him with all my heart, but I’m a very jealous girl and he says my jealousy is killing his feelings. He says he would never cheat. Do you think this is true?
Is the Leo man faithful physically and emotionally? Please help as I need to know the man I am about to marry.
You’re 19 and you don’t sound even remotely ready to make a lifetime commitment. And I am not trying to be insulting, but offer you a reality check.
First, there are no guarantees. You are asking to be absolutely guaranteed your man will never cheat, or have a feeling for another, and this is not possible because you are dealing with a human being. And even when someone is expressly loyal, they will still develop feelings for people they meet throughout their life. They’d have to be dead and kept in a closet for this not to occur.
Secondly, I am not sure I would call it “love” when you want to take ownership of a person. When you really love someone, their happiness and satisfaction is the primary concern. It becomes more about them than it is about you and this is clearly not the situation between you and your man.
Now his temper may also be a problem, I don’t know. It’s possible you’re just pushing him to the brink and beyond. I know if it were me treating you great, and constantly telling you that I loved you, wanted to marry you and would never betray you and you continued to be consumed with jealousy… well after a time, this would drive anyone up a wall. And if you are relentless in this way, what do you think is going to happen? Eventually the person will leave you just to not be driven crazy on a daily basis.
So you see you’ve got a problem here. And you might want to see a counselor about it. Not him but you, by yourself. See, you need to find out why you are terrified because if you don’t get a handle on it you’re going to lose this man for sure… and the next and the next and next.