I seem to always be closely linked to aquarian men. My brother, a man I was in a relationship with for close to a decade, and now, someone I work with. All three of these relationships have felt competitive in some way. My brother was the youngest child for many years until my arrival. My ex really wanted to “win” at the relationship and my co-worker seems to have decided that he and I are competing for something, but in the working environment we are in there really isn’t anything to fight over.
I am wondering is there an indicator in my chart that shows of relationships, conflicts, etc., with uranus energy? And is there a way I can break down the competitive walls that seem to be put up in these relationships?
Competing With Aquarius
Your chart shows someone who competes in relationships, but you’ve got the wrong culprit! Competition has nothing to do with Uranus. It’s Mars all the way!
Sure enough, you have Mars conjunct Mercury conjunct your ascendant. You are most definitely going to fight with the “other” (aspect to your descendant). Siblings are Mercury-ruled so it’s the same thing going on with your brother.
I also notice that Mars squares your Moon in Virgo. Virgo tends to see themselves as innocent maidens. I’m not saying you do this, but I’d think about it. Because the ruler of your Moon is Mercury, which again pulls in Mars.
Last, Neptune opposes your Mars, exactly. It’s not surprising your own anger and desire to compete eludes you. Check this out:
“And is there a way I can break down the competitive walls that seem to be put up in these relationships?”
That sounds like you want to heal things but it you read it carefully, what you really want to do is prevail.
*Note – this is not meant to criticize you. I am super Marsy myself…
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When you meet someone, do you try to win?