If you have strong Cancer or Capricorn in your chart, invariably, parent/child themes crop up in your relationships. People with emphasis on the 4th and 10th house experience the same thing. I don’t think this is wrong. It’s inescapable.
This weekend one of my friends (with Capricorn) popped off with this:
“You have little boys who want to be your man and I have full grown men who want to be my little boy.”
I laughed, but she is quite right.
Do you experience this? Which side are you on? Do you play both?