This was for a client in regards to a potential relationship:
“There is definite affinity and attraction here as well as long term potential provided both parties want that and are willing and interested in overcoming impediment to being with another. Notice I said “another” not “each other”. This is because the problems that exist are in each individual, rather than something that comes up when the two of them relate…”
It occurred to me this is probably a best case scenario and I’ve never seen it in this light before. She’s got challenges and he’s got challenges but they do not necessarily give each other challenges. There is support and stimulation between the charts but they do not burden each other.
Now a person who doesn’t have hold of themselves causes problems and burdens everyone so this couple can still go south, but the trouble is not built in and I think this is cool.
I wonder how many others are lucky like this but don’t realize it. Hmm.
Does your partner give you problems that you’d not have otherwise?