I have been friends with a Scorpio male for a few years and I always had a thing for him. Now he knows my feelings and is slowly falling for me (I THINK). I am an Aquarius and since we have been friends we have a great understanding of each other and have a huge amount of trust for one another. I love him like I thought I never would and I’m just scared of getting hurt cause I have heard of Scorpio men but he has only been in one relationship and he is 27. Last night he became intimate with me for the first time and it was sooooo tender and loving, it scares me but makes me so happy to, what to do??
First, thank your lucky stars you’ve found someone you like who likes you! As for being afraid of Scorpio, don’t believe everything you read! If this guy was lousy, you’d have already seen signs of that. I have had long term relationships (20 years plus) with more than one Scorpio and never been hurt by them… nor seen them hurt anyone else! Your problem here is your problem. You’re prone to worry and focusing on overcoming this tendency will be most productive.
Ironically, your new man can help you with this as he sounds very UN-flaky based on his history which means it is up to you to simply enjoy the process you are in and turn away when your worried mind kicks in.
Get these two things loud and clear: First, let’s say this is the man for you long term? Do you really want to spend the first part of your relationship worried out of your mind? Of course not. You should relish this time. Try replacing worry with gratitude.
Second, there is really is so little you can do. The man either loves you (or will love you) or he won’t. Your best move is to be yourself… the happiest my positive self you can be so he can fall in love with you.
I always tell young women in your circumstances what my sister told me years ago… “If you’ve got the right man, you can’t do anything wrong. This includes starting your period on your white dress…”
She was right about that and if you doubt it, just ask any man… and I mean ANY man and he will tell you this is the case.
Anyone else have advice?