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Sijune
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Do you see me with a girlfriend into 2022?

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NotMyCircus
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You have Aries North Node. (Libra South Node.)

I have Aries SOUTH Node.

Let me tell you the difference, from my observations (I had a friend with Libra South Node):

 

Aries South Node people like myself tend to go off and do what we want or need to do without checking in with others. We push, Aries-style, to get things done. We prefer to ride solo. Relationships are hard for us, but they help us grow and become better, more considerate people. 

Aries North Node (Libra SOUTH Node) doesn’t feel confident making things happen on their own, taking the bull by the horns, being assertive with others and taking the risk of going it alone sometimes. They are always checking in with other people and asking for input even when the path is clear and the alphabet soup spells GO! Relationships can actually hold them back. (They can have them, but leaning on them or relying on them can take them backwards.) They need to learn how to take initiative and think for themselves, push for what they want and need. 

Aries South Node has to learn to be more nice. Aries NORTH Node has to learn to be LESS nice. 

Maybe this will help. 

One disclaimer: The Nodes are but one part of the chart. For luck, I’d look to your Jupiter sign and house. Look up Jupiter in Pisces and learn about it. (There are threads on the boards about it.) I can’t tell you what 2022 will bring, but maybe Jupiter will help (as long as you grab the opportunities that come to you). Good luck!

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I want to make a start,to find a girlfriend that suit me and make a relationship this year,is it possible?

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@sijune Of course it is possible, but it's up to you to make it happen.

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You know what,im a dude with AVPD and depressed,do you know what this means for friendships and relationships,how negative affected me last 20 years? ? 

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“Please” &

“thank you”

go a long way, sijune.

How long have you been in therapy? 
Do you feel it’s helping you?

Has anything positive come out of it?

 

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@la_sirena 

1 year in psychotherapy with antidepressants meds,its a slow progress,long term therapy,but struggling,i stopped due to high cost and unemployment.

It's chronic patterns that dont know if they cant be treated after so many years.Last year should be my worst in mental health so far.

 

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With both transiting Nodal rulers - Mars and Venus conjunct and square the Nodes you are at an opportune time to move thru whatever is blocking you.

Elsa is a master at helping people  move into the 7 th and 8 th houses. It might be worthwhile to have a session with her......

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@don 

Since 21/12/2020,the date i retired from the first job,a really bad job with small salary,my mental health gone wrong,dunno what and why affected me so negative back then.

I have mountain of issues to overcome and i wantes to know if there is so hope will treat some of them. Formal Smile  

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