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thoughts on these synastry/composite charts? new man "sort of" in my life...


BellaDonna
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Hi everyone, I posted here before about a guy I started dating a few months ago but I didn't get much response (lengthy content). 

I am nearing the end of my foggy Neptune Saturn transit, and the Saturn Uranus square will be hitting the 11-degree angles of my chart. So, there's already been a lot of shifts happening in my life. 

When he and I first started dating I didn't think I was going to stay here. I ended up leaving abruptly to assist a family member, and now I have returned feeling renewed with more clarity.

It's possible with the Saturn Uranus square to my IC and DESC, that things could abruptly change btw now and Xmas, but as of now it is looking like I am going to be settling/putting down roots here for this huge new chapter next yr. 

He and I are sort of seeing again, although recovering from the break period, so, moving slowly... but since I might be staying here, it has me curious about where this possible relationship is headed. 

He is divorced with two children, so his life is very full. I am a recovering commitment-phobe that is just starting mine (in that sense). Fortunately, I don't care to have kids of my own.

He treats me very well, and represents the change that has been needed for me in relationships.. but I am not sure if he's a practice round - helping to set a new standard for the right partner to come, or if we are headed down a more serious path together. 

I'd appreciate any insights or thoughts that come to mind regarding our synastry and composite charts. 🙏

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I'm sorry no one is responding but I think it's because you're stating that you're not really invested yourself.

I don't mean to be rude. It's just that caring about something is what encourages others to care. 

It also sounds as if you may be using him... you're willing to, it seems, considering him potentially "practice"?

This man has kids. If you're not serious about him, I hope you aren't spending time with his kids.  It will confuse them and cause them pain over time.

I wish all involved the best.

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@elsa No I am not spending time with his kids nor have met him. As  I said, it's been only a matter of months, so no, of course, the kids are not involved. I was already very upfront with him about my feelings. I was a child of divorced parents and my father quickly remarried and started a new family, so I am very sensitive to it. I think you misunderstood my intentions and what I meant. If anything BECAUSE of him being a father is why I am hesitant and asked about the astrology. 

I don't agree about using him. Dating is practice. There's no way to know who is right unless I am actively dating men and learning and get to see how the man invests in me/shows interest through his pursuit. I think that is healthy. 

I am not sure yet he is my life partner because we are still getting to know each other. So, I don't know if this is the universe's way of introducing me to potential partners (via dating) that are healthier (because my past was not), and is a starting point not an ending. 

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@belladonna Sounds good!

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