Sex aspects in Synastry
what are the hottest aspects you've ever encountered?
Ever experience mars/Pluto square or opposition?
Personally in my experience mars/Venus is mediocre...unless Pluto is involved.. I guess since I have Pluto opposite Venus and lots of 8th house.
For some effed up reason I like the tension/drama/Passion of pluto/mars...
What about you?
I wonder if this kind of thing could make it long term... if so that would make the happiest I could be in a relationship.
It's because of my Aries. My Aries Venus opposite Libra Pluto... Possibly this kind of thing could work for me because Saturn in scorp is also conj Pluto... Since Saturn is longevity... Who knows? Synastry is so freaking complex.
I'm just thinking about what my needs are because well transit Uranus is conjunct my.mars... I feel not so passionate and I'm wondering if I need passion.
I spent some time with a guy who's mars was opposite my pluto. It was pretty good. The sex I mean. There was a lot of energy between us but no real compatibility. Mainly because he would throw fits every time I wasn't able to drop everything to have sex with him.
Haha, throw fits? that's funny... Umm I just realized why I'm asking this right now...its because transit mars is now sq my natal Saturn/Pluto... I'm so hot for this mars degree because of my t square with Pluto/Venus/lilith.
Hope everything is going well for you, or if not well, at least not painful.
I've had venus-mars with two ex-boyfriends. One was a conjunction and the other a sextile. I feel like this aspect is more of a love-at-first-sight aspect rather than a sex aspect, but that's just my personal experience.
The making out was really hot and intense with both like I couldn't get enough and wanted to be touching them/around them all the time. The conjunction guy we never even had sex because we only dated a couple of months, but it was more of an "I could be around this person all day every day and never get tired of them and do anything for them" type of thing.
My best sex ever, his mars was sextile my venus, which was conjunct both his pluto and north node. Also his venus was square my pluto-saturn conjunction and opposing my mars. It was so perfect, both sweet and sensitive and intense and just perfect like we were made for each other the way we seemed to fit together so perfectly. I could've married him and been with him forever even though he was quite a bit older, until I found out he was deceiving me (his Neptune was square my sun). He was already married, so I had to end it.
Don't make any life altering decisions while Uranus is transiting your mars. I met my husband when Uranus was transiting my mars, and after the transit had passed I realized I was not thinking clearly at the time and made a terrible mistake. He made me feel safe and secure and like he would never harm me or cheat on me, but there wasn't really any romantic passion. (His venus is square my sun). He was more into me than I was into him. He pursued me and I felt he was a "safe" choice, thinking if he loved me more than I loved him I couldn't get hurt as deeply as I had in the past. Five years later, "safety" has transformed into "misery" and "prison." This description could not describe my experience any better:
"You may be attracted by a virile, strong person with an out-of-the-ordinary personality: he will certainly be a bit brusque. That will please you as it gives you a sense of security and you will not have to take yourself in hand because he will decide everything for you. It is likely that when the influence of this transit has disappeared, you may wonder why you were so attracted."
Even if you aren't that into passion right now, once Uranus moves on, so will your "logical justifications." The desire for passion will come back and you will miss it desperately if you gave it up for safety/security and don't have it anymore.
I understand Venus squared as I'm in about the same situation except Uranus was conj my sun when I married my husband.
My mars trines Uranus/Jupiter natally and doesnt recieve any hard aspects natally so I believe if I do make a decision under this transit, it will benifit me. I have a deep need for freedom and independance and right now my mars is highly frustrated because its been very repressed and controlled for the past 5 years. My mars squares my husbands cap moon and opposes his Saturn/merc.