Have you ever seen a psychotherapist?
One time it was suggested to me when my Gemini son was off the teenage rails, and I was so worried my hair started falling out. She was a family counselor, and I went one time. She suggested tough love... sounded great HA try to pull that on his Mars in Scorpio. I did better talking to my Gemini teen. Anyway, he got over his teenage angst and my hair grew back HA. Good long talks work with Gemini. You aren't going to force a damn thing on them. I don't care who you are. If they can't work that out in their mind, it's not happening.
NOW... a good grief counselor might do me some good. I mean two parents dying at once is pretty harsh on the emotions after the wild ride the last two years have been.
My problem is ... I'm a Scorpio. You know we don't tell anyone anything. I probably need to go. But worry if I do, I will get there and just stare at the person like... you're not getting shit out of me. Being the walking vault and all. I hate telling things, telling on people, telling my ridiculous story. I share but to a select few. I have shared some to a couple of peeps here... one has a packed 8th house and the other one I have moon/Pluto with. Not a real word to anyone else... well my husband knows. He is on top of me all day every day 😒
This whatever nightmare event I just went through caused me to have depression (or as I call it Saturn) for the first time in my life. I am pulling out of it. I probably need to go see someone just to find a way to navigate through the remainder of this grief. It's rough.
I saw some sort of therapist for like maybe eight years and I never talked about anything - so I quit.
But he was a very nice person, hardly ever said a thing. (I did give him a drawing once, but he never commented on it.)
I guess I needed someone to talk to.
As it is, I'm still pretty much uncomfortable - but it seems like a habit now.
You get used to it.
Yes in my twenties for 2 years after my brother passed away. Was a very good therapist. And now also my second year.
I felt reluctant to go two years ago. But Saturn square my moon at the time did the trick. I’m so grateful that I did go. It’s helping enormously!
my therapist also recommended the breath work. I didn’t believe in it at first. But now doing breath work in combo with meditation and it soothes me.
in therapy I have had EMDR , and now we’re at Internal family systems. Very insightful.