Ive had a flirtation-fascination over a neighbor of mine who Im absolutely gaga for. Im in a relationship already so Im not taking it further, but I was curious what the astro-dynamics where so I looked up and its the lovely lil 8th house.. AGAIN! lol.
4 of his planets have been deposited in the little dark area in the back of my brain that keeps on popping up again at the most unusual and awkward of times, Thanks 8th house.
Anyone else experience this? Im also very interested in how the planet person is affected.
Hmm I donno. I went for three different guys with 8th house moons, and they all had initial attraction to me as well, and ultimately rejected me for anything serious. Then I dated someone with a huge 8th house stellium, and he (most likely) cheated on me so I left him. Those are the only guys I've fallen really hard for.
Are the planets falling in your 8th house?
CocoPeaches said
Hmm I donno. I went for three different guys with 8th house moons, and they all had initial attraction to me as well, and ultimately rejected me for anything serious. Then I dated someone with a huge 8th house stellium, and he (most likely) cheated on me so I left him. Those are the only guys I've fallen really hard for.Are the planets falling in your 8th house?
Yes, their planets where falling in my 8th, maybe because my natal venus and moon sit in that house I am affected so deeply.
CocoPeaches, where you the planet person or the house person in your 8th house experiences?
Someone I met a while ago has their Sun in my 8th house. There is no chance for this to become romantic or sexual in any way, nor do I want it to be. But there has still been a fascination. Recently I feel this fascination a little less intensely, which is a tremendous relief.
Sorry, mine were not actually in synastry. It was always just in their natal 8th house. I'm not very plutonian at all, other than that I'm from pluto in scorp generation, and its only aspects are semi-sextile my moon and sextile Neptune. I was always very fascinated though, so I thought I'd chime in. 
It depends on aspects and planets for me.
Moon and Mars have been the most intense and fascinating in my experience. The other planets not as much.
Mostly, I just find it hard to be neutral about peoples planets in my 8th, and to be honest, it bothers me. I'm not the kind of person who likes feeling like I don't have control of myself and my feelings, so it's unsettling more than anything.
I dont mind falling in other's 8th house on the other hand, I think it's attractive but less crazy-making on the planet person.