What's Your Experience Dating Virgo?
Wife of a Virgo here. I get along amazingly with Virgos in general.
I had a lot of fun with my then boyfriend. He's got a stellium in Virgo (Sun, Mercury, Saturn, Jupiter) all in the 10th house. This guy was IN CHARGE and knew how things should be done. He just naturally took them over and fixed everything. ("Just let me do it.") I was so impressed.
People would ask him for advice; the guy can cut right to the heart of a problem and solve the darn thing in 3 seconds flat. The problem was, the people who asked the advice often wouldn't take it even when they knew he was right, and it drove him crazy. For me it was amusing to watch, with all my 3rd house and Gemini going on. I laughed a lot. Oh and he's Italian. Old school Italian. From the city. Right up my alley.
When we'd go out, he never let me pay. He opened doors, made sure everything was in order, always had a plan. I loved that, LOVED it.
He had a huge social network and there was always something to do. He can talk; I love a talker. He loved family, loyalty; had a great sense of humor. I thought, yes, this is the ONE!
If I needed something, it was taken care of, no questions asked. I'd have something going wrong, he knew the way to handle it. He helped me negotiate my salary once, while I was scared to death to do so - his being a man and a Virgo to boot led him to be very cutthroat about getting what he wants, and he showed me how. He was a force, saying what's right is right, what's fair is fair.
My Merucury energy is pretty strong so maybe that's why I love the sign. My dad has a Virgo Moon and played the hypercritical role for me, which was rough but also interesting to watch when not directed at me. Later when I saw my husband have an occasional Virgo freak out, shaking his head like "why don't they listen to me? People should just listen to me and not be dumb and everything would work out...." oh it was hilarious to me and we'd laugh. Hilarious but he really was always right. It's rare he isn't and it drives me crazy (in a good way), and I have a small celebration when I get the best of him. And I laugh then too. We're just so well suited in that way.
He asked me to marry him, we got married, had babies, all real fast. He holds everything together for us. The money, the car repairs, carrying the groceries in, trucking our kids to activities, he lives to serve. He has his faults but since this is about dating, I'll not include them because I didn't really know them until we got married 😂