Venus Opposite Pluto In Synastry
Sexual attraction to each other, at times, is extremely intense. These sexual feelings tend to be irresistible or obsessive, and difficult to control or even comprehend. The Venus person, especially, feels magnetically attracted or mesmerized by the Pluto person. Powerful subconscious emotional drives come into play, and you may become exceedingly attached to one another, as well as very jealous and manipulative at times.
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Is your Venus opposite your partner's Pluto or vice versa? What's it like?
I have Venus opp Pluto Natal exact, and do, ofc with everyone my age. My relationships with older and younger people are good natured. My relationships with those my age are... well, intense. What's more, I often romantically attract those with personal planets in Scorpio.
I'm presently dating a 29th degree Leeb Sun with Venus/Merc/Pluto in Scorp in the 3rd (I've got Gem in the 12th, so we both have blended emotional/intellectual energies. Plus he's a Virgo rising, so Merc ruled!). His Mars in Aquarius squares my Venus/Pluto very closely. And, he has Venus opp Pluto 1 degree off. His Cancer Moon is on my ASC/Mars from the 12th house side. Sun trine Mars/ASC. Needless to say, the relationship is about as intense as it gets.
We have a literal psychic bond (I've never said that about anyone before, so I feel weird saying it, but it's true!). He's away at the moment, and I'm in the throes of moving and travelling. I swear he can sense when I'm sad, because he calls me when I miss him the worst. (He just messaged me as I was typing this, in fact lol). I won't see him for a month. I'm getting used to it, but he's always there, in my head. There is a lot of love and a LOT of sex. We're insanely sexually compatible and there is no fear. Nothing's too taboo. The honesty in our relationship is excellent.
He's my rock and I'm his. Venus/Pluto is one of our major placements.
The downside is: I don't think this relationship will be forever due to major life path discrepancies. This is the hardest part of Venus/Pluto... cos walking away is damn near impossible... and shit gets Sid & Nancy real quick. This placement is the war between personal power and love. It is liable to make you feel totally crazy.
This was Horny BIL (the old timers may remember my stories about him) and me. He's the Pisces Venus, I'm the Virgo Venus/Pluto. They're closely opposite. This was taboo to its core - a guy lusting after his sister in law and making no bones about it around everyone. (I wasn't little Miss Innocent either. I was feeling low and completely unappreciated at the time. It never led to sex, because I wouldn't let it go that way.)
This brought a lot of chaos and destruction, naturally. It split the family apart and laid bare the fact that he only married Big Cap's sister for her money.
There's been no contact in 11 years.
Interestingly enough, this whole thing burned to the ground when t. Pluto in Sag hit both the Venuses...both at 29d.