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I feel so tired and drained .. Mars entered my 12th house


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  1. Here I am once again this time I’m just trying to feel things out though I’ve been worried about my upcoming solar return now for so long because my Mars is in the 12th in the sr chart it colors the year ahead but I didn’t know Mars was gonna be entering my 12th house right now already and I’d be feeling it already I feel absolutely drained and I just wanna sleep I don’t have energy to chase even my kids around anymore I feel like I filled with all kinds of responsibilities .. it’s also my Saturn return so I know that plays a role but I hope that with the solar return Mars 12th house opposing Neptune doesn’t last the entire year because this freakin sucks .. here I am truing to learn to be more responsible(( and I’m doing it) but this feels so heavy ! I just got married a week ago and it doesn’t even feel like it maybe all of this was for nothing idk 🥺 I am starting to feel bad for myself bc I don’t really have friends Andy I go to astrology to be able to talk to people and maybe look at positive things coming but I get looked at as I’m going crazy for asking any questions on my mind (not in this forum you guys are awesome) but I go on a few sites and people can be rude .. I just feel so down and alone I need some kind of insight I feel like a broken record 
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I can sympathise with your 12th h feelings. I have a late Virgo rising, 27* so have Mars and Mercury going through my 12th, Venus just crossed my ascendant today into 1st h and I'm hoping the coming Venus Libra transit will bring a bit more vavavoom! You have Venus in Libra 1st h, so your Venus return is coming, I'm sure you will feel a change soon. The 12th h is quite isolating and I am actually isolated in quarantine for the next 10 days as I just arrived back in UK and it's the regulations here. On a Venus note, I found myself going through my wardrobe this morning and checking out my old clothes, working out what I like now. Venus definitely gets dormant in 12th and you feel blah! I am extremely fatigued and resting alot, possibly due to Mars hanging there. I think when Mars and Venus are involved you really feel it in your body. I'm trying to accept my tiredness and let myself nap, but I do feel guilty too so it's a running commentary/battle in my head! I guess with the 12th, acceptance and surrender to how you are /feel is important, but so hard to do. 

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@sophiab that makes me feel better to know change is coming! Yes and you’re right all I do is work barely get to sleep in now I’m starting to take frequent naps here the last 4 days because I’ve literally needed it like idk almost like when I had my kids or when I was depressed (probably still am depressed lol) I just got so wore out I don’t wanna socialize or nothing it’s hard bc of course right now everyone wants to socialize with me and it’s all work and no play time for me and sleep is priority! But with my solar return Mars with be in my 12th house at 29 degrees opposite Neptune all year and that worries me I don’t wanna feel like this continuously

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@mirandag You gotta get the rest in and set boundaries - 12th h makes boundary setting harder but be really conscious of it so as to set your own limits (take that forward to the Sr year). Today I had some big long intense chats with my folks (haven't seen them for nearly 2 years!) and it drained the life force out of me so much I just crashed out and felt ill. I realised I have to limit my interaction to minimal at least for now. I need to conserve energy for myself and its not being selfish. You are likely more vulnerable to others energy too right now. Weddings are often about everyone else lol! You can celebrate how you want when you want and maybe when you feel more venusian.. your chart ruler too. I find Venus energy involves the sensitivities of the body, when Venus feels weak, as in 12th you just feel less sure of yourself. It's very powerful energy for feeling a sense of wellbeing. Self care is important now until you feel like chatting and being seen again.

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@sophiab it’s crazy because I felt this energy for the past few months but it wasn’t even transiting yet and now it is and it’s pretty heavy or maybe another transit is similar idek because this exhaustion just got very intense lol that’s how I knew to check my transits on top of that I have been trying to defend myself like a lot more than usual and my children

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@mirandag There's a lot going on in the world, in the collective energy that is very exhausting to deal with day to day, especially if you are a sensitive or empath. I find I am okay when I wake up but I get progressively more heavy as the day wears on and I'm thankful to hit the hay at night to refresh my energy. So that's just the times we're living in! You have to keep in mind your Saturn return which is active in this period and is going to be making you stressed and pressurised. Saturn in Aquarius, I think, tunes you in quite acutely to the collective 'pool' of energy so that it effects you quite directly. Plus you have your individual life stuff, like getting married, having a family, all the responsibilities of maturing. Hang in there! I should think that the 12th h transits are also making you a bit fearful because it kind of sets of unconscious fears and they can run away with themselves. When you get a lot of 12th house influence I always think its best to try to push it into the 6th h opposite, ie daily life stuff, routines, rituals, self care, even pets lol! It's like you need to channel it into a framework and ground it. Don't let your mind go too far in its ruminating. I'm gonna try and take my own advice today and stay busy!

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@sophiab yeah I will try to channel my energy in other ways I’m thinking I need to talk to my doctor maybe anxiety help .. I got myself off anxiety meds 2 years ago now it was so hard to do but I really think I need them I’ve been dealing with this crap for so long I don’t even like going to the grocery store or talking to my clients at work (I do hair) you’d think I would love to socialize but I hate it and this is what I have my license In it takes so much mental energy from me I feel exhausted idk how to communicate my anxiety takes over I just wanna seclude myself even before Mars came to my 12th house I really hate living stuck in the house because I don’t wanna go out around people it’s like a prison and I can’t fix it almost .. only thing I think I can do is the meds honestly it’s just so uncomfortable even at my wedding I couldn’t let loose completely until I drank too much which I regret and I kno I shouldn’t have done that but I have been feeling also so uptight I can’t “live a little” I feel so boring and predictable anymore my life has became me worrying and working so much I don’t even know what I like anymore for my own self

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@mirandag Sorry to hear you're going through that. As a Virgo rising I have lived with anxiety of varying levels through my life and recognise your situation. At times, meds can help, I just took diazepam as and when it was really bad, but nothing long term, the Virgo energy doesn't really go with meds! What has helped me is getting to the root of the anxiety, so I did talking therapy and it has freed me of a great deal of the unconscious issues linked to early trauma. Now it's just the normal day to day worries to face. So I recommend that wholeheartedly if you are in a position to look into it. Just having someone to talk to and who is there just for you can help loads.

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I have Sun at 22 deg and Pluto at 24 deg Virgo. I feel tired too, sleeping a lot and feeling less energy. At the same time, I was feeling angry too. But since Venus entered Libra, I'm feeling less angry.

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