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Being Different/Always the Outsider

Lila31
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Charpy said
Lila- Yes I think if you try to fit into the ‘norm’ and force yourself into the boxes that have been set for you by society then people will keep pushing you back and rejecting you- you might find yourself being treated as the scapegoat. It's not easy because unlike Uranus who enjoys being the rebel outcast Chiron doesn't, Chiron longs to be accepted. But when you learn to embrace the fact that your an outsider, that you exist on the edges of society- ironically that's when you will find your place in the world (your power) and where you will find other people like you- a place to belong. From there you'll have tremendous power to heal and inspire others. 

I would definitely recommend looking into Chiron some more (especially Chiron in the 1st house)- there’s lots of great articles online and videos you can watch on Youtube. I think they will help you    smile  

So I should just accept that people will treat me differently and exclude me from things? I'll definitely look more into this, thanks!

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I have felt this way, but I’ve accepted and come with peace on it. Certain people will like me and other people not so much. There is a purpose to this. It weeds out people who will not get along with you anyway.

You are Moon-ruled with Cancer rising.

You have Uranus (odd) conjunct Neptune (sensitive) square your Moon (feelings) and Sun (identity). This Uranus-Moon square is on your angles, which emphasizes this energy. You feel (Moon) odd or different (Uranus), and you are (Sun). You may feel (Moon) awkward (Uranus).

Transiting Pluto is squaring your Moon, activating this natal Uranus-Moon square, which may be why you are feeling triggered about this.

The idea you will never fit in with anyone is erroneous. It is a deceptive feeling. You may feel that way, but you will be able to find people you fit in with and can relate to somewhere! See, I am relating. We are all unique individuals, that is another commonality that we all share. 

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Libra Noir
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I meant to mention that I dont have that particular aspect. My isolation is more Plutonian in nature, so a bit different. In my case, people just act weird around me and are uncomfortable (or are immediately comfortable, which presents other problems lol). 

But I think that both Pluto and Chiron have connections to the collective unconscious.

Because you are able to tap into a primordial wound/trauma that the collective soul of humanity has, many unconscious people who arent equipped to look that deeply might see you (unconsciously) as some kind of symbol of that wound, which is why they seemingly reject you or you cant fit in. Its not personal. Its their inability to face it, through no fault of their own. 

What I realized is that they are largely not seeing me. I remind them of yucky stuff inside themselves. Thats what they are rejecting. Im just a symbol for that. (I think people with outer planets on angles tend to be seen in this kind of symbolic way too). But we are not that symbol (Chiron in your case, Pluto in mine). My mistake was buying the idea that because others saw me in this way, then I must be this way. I dont know if you do this or not, but I just thought Id throw it out there. 

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I also second Charpys advice about researching the Chiron archetype. Studying archetypes has helped me immensely in my understanding of myself and my impact on the world. Chiron is a very powerful one at that! 

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Unfortunately, I understand this feeling too much!

People will have different replies/responses to any thread.

For me, I'll say, have you checked your astrocartography? Your relationship with the city and/or state, that you live in? Sometimes you, and a place, are just not that compatible with each other!

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Thesecondphoenix
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It is an interesting question what the astrological signatures are.

Liz Greene wrote a book called 'the dark inside' where she talked about scapegoating. I think the outsider and scapegoat are similar things. Ancient cultures used to load up a goat with the 'sins of the town' and send it out to die and they thought this solved something... This is how stupid people solve problems.

I would always go first to the outer planets.

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