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Balance Between Give & Take

Elsa
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It's a Libra thing, I guess. Emphasizing or at least being aware of keeping things in balance.

Do you feel you give as much as you take? Does it matter to you?

Are you naturally more of a giver than a taker or is it the other way around?

Libra thanks you! {astro}:libra:  

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Dori
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I'm more a giver, Cancer. 🙂 I love giving but I also love to feel the love back, especially my Leo Moon, he loves being adored in the most passionate way. But lately, I get crumbles under the table and it hurts because it's obvious things aren't in balance. I only have Pluto in Libra, but it's a generational thing so I don't give it too much attention. No other Libras, but still I would like to see that things are in some kind of balance. It matters to me, but others don't see it that way. People love taking today, but not putting too much effort in giving back, or giving at all.

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gogol
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I have Libra but I also secretly keep a tab of who owes what! (Even though I have woefully little of Scorpio)

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gogol
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I guess I'm trying to say that I'm bad at collecting 🙂

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carmen
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I’m the Libra rising, and moon , always giving too much, and hardly receive anything in return. Let friends live with me for free,I paid for everything, I cooked and cleaned,  I was too afraid to say something about it. They called me with their problems sat at my couch with their problems. But when shit hit the fan, no one friend of mine gave the same back. I’ve lost many “friends” .

when I moved 400 km away it felt freeing, I created the boundary in the way of moving. My life is with my bf. Sure it makes me utterly lonely sometimes. But better than fake friends who only need me to use me as their puking bag. Slowly i cut off contact, I wasn’t ready before. Maybe it’s due to the harsh transit squares to my moon, and sun I don’t know . I’m learning to give that love i used to give others to myself. Not there yet. Work in progress. 

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jana
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It's hard for me to see this clearly. i've held up a lot of people and been held up bigly on occasion. No one has complained yet.

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