Continuing the discussion on Attention Seeking Behavior…
I see this a Venus Neptune stuff. People like me, then they don’t and it’s nothing new. I am a woman men give rings to and then ask for them back. I mean they want them right off my finger and this pattern has happened to me in relationships only about 8000 times and all I can say if you think you like me, let’s see how you feel next year!
I think this is a Neptune phenomenon because it’s like the tide. The tide is in and I am well liked and appreciated but the tide doesn’t stay in does it? Next thing you know I am on ass on the beach and there is no one anywhere going to do a damned thing for me.
Exceptions occur with people who can actually SEE me but these people are very few and far between and they rarely offer support. They just wait for the tide to come back in and lift me up as they know it will.
I think this is cruel by the way. I wouldn’t do it myself in a million years but I know other people’s choices are none of my business and again, it’s nothing new. I know people feed off my emotion.
If there is one thing I don’t lack it is psychological sophistication and I can readily trace these patterns back 40 years. Based on that no one has to tell me where my limits are and what I can and can’t do and all I can tell you is when a man says, “Elsa, give me that ring back,” I take it from my finger and hand it to him.
Did he make a mistake?
Well yeah, but that’s his right.