At what point does a person realize that what they are doing simply is not working and it’s not liable to begin working anytime soon, if ever? It seems people resist coming to this conclusion.
For example, another of their relationships fail. Too bad, so sad, and what do they do? They tee up a new partner, just like the old partner and they do with him or her what they did with the one before them and the one before that and my God! Is this not a broken record?
How come we don’t use that phrase anymore? “You sound like a broken record….” Does it hurt people? Is it too honest? Is it better to let your friends loved ones fail, endlessly? Is it polite? Does it make you feel better about your success? What?
I realize it’s pointless (and rude) to offer advice when it’s not been asked for but I am asking this in all seriousness. If you are failing and failing and failing, has it occurred to you that some drastic change is called for? That you might be completely deluded in your perceptions?
Er…Venus and Jupiter are conjunct my natal Uranus…this post is a result. But Saturn in Scorpio is squaring the whole mess so I’m deadly serious, asking this.