Dear Elsa, You’ve written a lot about projecting shadows on others. I’m not sure if this is the same thing, but when a person falls in love, everything about the love object seems perfect. Then after a breakup, it’s possible … Read More…
Tag Archives: Pluto in 7th
Dear Elsa, I’ve always struggled in finding fulfilling and harmonious relationships. I tend to want too much, too fast, too soon. This either pushes people away all together, or leads me to find people who exploit my dependency needs, sometimes … Read More…
This was for a gal with an exceptionally complex chart. She’s got a strong “till death do we part” signature in her chart”, but she’s also quite independent. She’s young (25 years old) and starting to wonder what her relationship … Read More…
Hi, Elsa. I have a 7th house Sun natally and getting along with people was a major concern in my life. I did my best and all in vain. A couple of years ago I stopped trying hard and started to be what … Read More…
Dear Elsa, I am caught in a mental pattern that is driving me crazy. Often when I am in a relationship, I will meet someone. Sparks will fly, but I’ll back off, knowing that I am not available. However, I … Read More…
Hi Elsa, I’ve been through two disastrous marriages, and I’m wondering what fate has in store for me now. As I reflect on the past 35 years, I see a pattern of allowing myself to be a doormat when it … Read More…
Hi Elsa, I am feeling really funky lately and it’s a feeling that comes back to me repeatedly. I get very paranoid about my relationship and tend to either lash out in anger or sink into depression. I try not … Read More…