Recently, I read about someone being denigrated for adapting their personality depending on who they were interacting with. These days, two people can do the exact same thing. Frequently, one will be attacked, the other defended depending on the politics … Read More…
Hi Elsa: I’ve noticed that in relationships, I tend to be happy to adapt to the other person a lot…. friendship, family, romance, whatever. They adapt too, of course, because every relationship has some level of compromise. But I’m perfectly … Read More…
Today the Sun, Moon, Venus, Jupiter, Saturn and Neptune are all part of a Mutable Grand Cross. This spells V-A-R-I-E-T-Y to me. I thought I’d align with the energy by offering you choices! I think this is a good way … Read More…
“Nothing is going on here,” I told satori. “I’m just waiting to see what everyone else is going to do.” She laughed. “Yeah, being a mutable codependent, this is what I do. I wait for all these Fixed people to … Read More…
I’m inordinately adaptable to whatever the conditions I find myself in. This allows me to have a pretty good quality of life. But what if you don’t have this skill? What if happiness is elusive? What if it is contingent … Read More…
Dear Elsa, I work in a profession where I have to be tough. Very tough. Unfortunately, the things that make me so damn good at my job make me a very lonely person. I was talking with a friend once … Read More…
