How To Break Up With A Married Man

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Dear Elsa,

I’ve been seeing a married man for 7 wonderful months. He is visiting from out of town, but will be leaving in a few weeks. I am dreading having to utter the words, “goodbye.” I’ve been seeing him a few times a month because his work hours are so hectic. He has been married for 3 years and has no children with his wife.

During a phone conversation early on, he uttered words “I could fall right in love with you.” What do you suppose he meant by this? He has never expressed his feelings to me face to face, but his eyes say so much. I want to tell him how I honestly feel for him before he leaves to go home for good.

Do you think I should impose on our last wonderful night together and tell him how I feel?



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Hi Elsa,

I’m currently a 27-year-old single female. I have never had a serious relationship that wasn’t with either a married man (2) or a girl (1). I get asked out on dates periodically, but it seems I can never move past that 1 or 2 date thing – unless the guy is already spoken for.

I wonder if this will be the trend for the rest of my life. Will I ever find someone to spend my life with?

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