Patterns in relationship
I had a consult with a gal, worried about what might be lurking beneath the surface in her marriage. Her marriage was good and solid and had been long-lasting but she had these concerns. In reality there are always things “lurking beneath the surface” when people interact. It’s not necessarily bad. People get together to work out […]
A man sent me this: But here’s the thing – and I’ve wanted to say this forever: I’ve seen you talk about this Saturn/Venus thing for a long long time, and it’s true. Saturn is a killer. Venus can be crushed (or bolstered!) by Saturn… we’ve seen both things happen. But Venus in Virgo is
Hi Elsa! You write about ‘frustrated mars’ quite frequently. How bad is a jacked up Venus, compared to that, in a chart? Thanks from India Good question, India. While a poorly aspected Venus can cause a lot of problems, I do see Mars in a different class. This is because Mars is a malefic planet.
Hi Elsa: I’ve noticed that in relationships, I tend to be happy to adapt to the other person a lot…. friendship, family, romance, whatever. They adapt too, of course, because every relationship has some level of compromise. But I’m perfectly happy with learning the other person and then working with that, and who they are…
Let me be clear, I am talking about someone in real life here. This is not an online situation. There’s a gal I know, she’s caused me a lot of pain. I was really happy in a group I belong too… right up until she and I crossed paths.
When you meet someone for the first time, do you, yourself show up? Or do you send hologram in there to check things out? (Neptune) Do you show up defensive? Do you interview the person, or wait for them to interview you? (Saturn)
Have you heard the term, “vertical search”? If not, you can expect to hear a lot about it over the coming months. These days it seems people can’t agree on what certain words or phrases mean. If you’re interested, here are two articles which explain what “vertical search” is. They don’t exactly agree! Why Vertical
