Yesterday evening I was sitting in the soldier’s truck after he’d backed it down a long narrow residential street with children around, and through a narrow gate, cock-eyed. We were planning to unload and then go down the street and reload. I’ve helped him do both but never on the same day and I was happy wondering how much work it was going to be.
“I’ve been here for 20 minutes and I have barely got a kiss,” I said. “Why not?”
“Well P, you’re not supposed to be kissing when you’re a work. No PDA’s while at work.”
I stared. “What. P D What?”
“No public displays of affection while in uniform. You’re not supposed to have them.”
I just stared and thought about how his Saturn aspects my Mars (he restricts me) and also on his own.
“You’ve been mad at me before,” he said. “You used to yell at me for this when we were kids, you just triggered a memory. Do you remember, P? You used to yell all right.”
“Because I wouldn’t kiss you in my uniform.”
“Yeah, I remember. We had to kiss in the apartment and then you left. No kissing outside the apartment,” I said.
“Yeah and you used to yell your head off.”
“I bet. What did I say and what did you say?’
“Well you wanted me to kiss you and I said, no P. I don’t want to go to the brig just so I can prove that I love you…”
What do you think of PDA’s? Do you have Saturn in aspect to Mars or Venus?