Would you tell someone their kid was not theirs if you knew this to be the case?
Would you tell a man his child was not his, if you knew something like this?
Why or why not?
Only if I were asked the question directly, and even then…. I would not want to lie, even by omission, unless I believed it could lead to retaliation by the asker.
I might, depending on the circumstances (how I found out, is it for sure?, how close I am to the people, etc.). I wouldn’t get involved in something like that without some really deep prayer and reflection first though. Overall though, if this is someone who has had my back in the past- hell yes, they are gonna hear the truth from me.
No. That's between the man and his wife/girlfriend/whatever she is to him. By saying something, you're involving yourself in business and drama that's not yours to get involved in.
It would depend on the circumstance. If the woman were pregnant, and I knew she was lying, I may say something, but I would probably try to do it anonymously. If the man and child already had a relationship, I would probably not tell.
I actually know someone who thinks her father is her father and he is not. He has no clue. She has no clue. I not only know, but I know who her real father is. I have never said a word. It is none of my business. I also have never told another soul. That is for them to unwind. That kind of think always has a way of coming out.
The only way I would say something ... is if it were my own son.