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Tuesday, March 12, 2019 - 7:20 pm
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I have a Aries male friend. Been friends about 2 years. Alwyas would chase me and I wouldn’t give in. I finally give in and it’s like he wants me to give reassurance and chase back. But I don’t.

he always comes back

but seems very much a “hinter”

for an Aries he dances around things.

pisces mercury rx natally, scorpio moon, Aries Venus and Capricorn mars

hes confusing. Once I feel it’s going somewhere it stalls. Then I back off then he comes back then he cools down then over and over.

to this day he is very flirty, but not forward in any other manner.

The last time we hung out I stayed over at his place but didn’t sleep with him, we cuddled and kissed for the first time he seemed happy about it. But never initiated anything again. And we haven’t hung out since… but he still frequently messages me.

 

was he waiting for me?

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Waiting for you?  Generally speaking, men go after what they want. It sounds as if he wants a game. If you want something other than a game, pull away. If he’s truly interested, he’ll let you know.

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I second Elsa’s opinion, which is factual.

Don’t pine or stress over this. He’s not being honest to himself or you. Don’t be too angry over this. Most young people are still figuring things out.

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DarkAquarian said
I second Elsa’s opinion, which is factual.

Don’t pine or stress over this. He’s not being honest to himself or you. Don’t be too angry over this. Most young people are still figuring things out.

  

Thanks for the reply. I am not angry, more so confused.

For the record he is 9-10 years older than me.

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Ive learned this: the minute Im confused, I should leave. Its not a good match if I cannot read the person at all. Its one of two things- either Im just incapable of seeing who this person is and their motivation or they are using me to feed their ego and they know exactly what they are doing. Either way, its no good. Nobody has time for that shit. There’s genuine people out there. Dont settle for less. 

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I also agree with Elsa, sounds like he likes playing the game which is ok if you know the game and don’t mind playing it.

  My husband is an Aries , I am a scorpio, We played the games. The more I showed I was not interested, the more he wanted me. I finally went out on a date with him. He said he was going to make me his project. Now some women would find that insulting but for me I was flattered. He tried to find my interests and acted on them.

  So I kept playing that game. I did tell him I did not want to get married ever again. Again another challenge. He was determined he was going to marry me. Eventually I did.

  He likes to tell the story how he reeled me in..LOl I like to tell how I reeled him in. See?

It was a game but we had so much fun playing it. We became best of friends. Playmates we had never had. We have been happily married 18 years. {I am now losing him to illness}

   If I had done this with anyone else other than maybe a Leo it just would not fly but an Aries loves the challenge.

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he has aries venus, so thats the type of woman he likes.

 

a warrior type of woman, ( i used to attract them alot and was with 3 ex’s with different sun signs wth the aries venus) 

 

https://www.elsaelsa.com/astro…..ries-like/

 

his cap mars will be cautious as hell.but he knows what he likes. 🙂

 

scorpio moon is what eventually he will settle for, but keep up that aries ;D

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Regardless of his sign, if you’re not enjoying this kind of game, maybe it’s not for you.

I was involved in a similar type of flirting before and got tired…  had to realize it’s not my type of game. Flirting for two years with a guy I like very much and he’s not making a move would be way to much for me… My inner Leo fire needs proof and affection. You know better what you need and how much and how far you allow him to play the game by his rules…

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