Why i haven't still made my first relationship?
Hello,34 yo and still no girlfriend or relationship has come to me,another year wasted,what you think?
You have Jupiter well placed in Pisces in the house of relationships (7th). It trines Venus ;). Later you will get transiting Jupiter returning to its original place, (Jupiter Return). I'm no expert, But that looks auspicious.
It's a good question. I suspect you look disinterested, possibly as a defense.
You will clearly need to force yourself into new territory if you want a new result. But as, Jana, stated, the potential is there.
First things first: My sister is a Leo and had her first relationship 2 years ago, aged 35/36. My soon to be brother-in-law is turning 46 this year and even though he has had quite a few relationships before he met my sister, he was around 6 years fully single before he met her. Now my sister is pregnant and they are due to get married, their first (and hopefully the only) time for both.
Now what jumped out to me was the Saturn in Sagittarius squaring your Ascendant and Descendant and conjuncting the IC. I can see that due to circumstances you may have endured you may tend to conceal your feelings and be rather anxious about how others perceive you. Furthermore, that Venus conjunction Pluto in Scorpio increases the anxiety about "keeping" a relationship intact (however, a relationship is not kept; it is maintained and evolves with and by both parties).
The key out of this conundrum is your Jupiter in Pisces, which trines your Venus and sextiles your Mars. You can be really generous and affectionate and maintain a winning attitude i.e. you don't let yourself get easily disappointed. Keep an eye on the Solar Eclipse in Gemini on June 10th, because it will be on your 10th house squaring your Sun and Jupiter. This means that you will get noticed one way or another for at least the next six months or so, so it's a great time to get out there. Even if the first tries don't get successful, remember that Mars sextile Jupiter: deep inside you know you'll make it, so let it shine.
There is a girl at workplace that i like,she is shy as i am and we talk sometimes,should i make a move? 🙄