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Why do Virgo and I fight so much?


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Dear astro-friends,

I have been with Virgo since May 15th 2019. His birthtime is somewhat correct. Around this time.

When both of our Moons progressed to Aries we started bickering a lot.

Is this the only reason?

Why do Virgo and I fight so much? 

 

 

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You're bickering because you choose to. You may just be getting itchy. Going on 18 months.

Do you want to keep going / stay together. If so, make a choice to get beyond this.  Relationships are tested over time, by periods like this.  These periods offer the chance to grow and to grow closer together.

Good luck!

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@elsa

Thank you. But he just broke it off today.......

I don't understand the reason why.......

Other than that he is exhausted from work and has something mysterious going on with his stomach. 

 

 

 

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@gemster I'm sorry. Unamused

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@gemster Sorry to hear this...

You said his p.Moon is now in Aries (natal 6th), so it is likely that he's having a health issue. Also, with p.Moon in Aries, this emphasizes Mars - energy, sexual drive, actions etc., all of which may be affected by health (t.Mars in Aries is also in his 6th). He has Sun-Mars exact semi-sextile, so it could be issues coming from work, that are impacting him, and manifesting as a heath problem.

I hope this sheds some light. 

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@osiris-wife

Thank you so much! I agree. They give him (security guard) 11 nightshifts and only 1 day of rest. Then it is back to work. A few weeks back he collapsed on the floor. His parents are over from abroad and say he drags himself to work.

 

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Good luck, relationships are.....relationships! ? 

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Apparently we are still on or back on. 

But his father has been rushed to the hospital (heart patient). So we have set our differences aside.  

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Hello, gemster,

I hope your boyfriend's father will be fine, sending love & light!

I want to share a bit about my experience with my current boyfriend, because it has been very difficult in the beginning. We are Scorpio-Virgo couple, I'm the Virgo. Our first year together has been filled with many fights... I honestly wouldn't believe back then that we will make until now together. In the middle of one fight, where I usually talked very much while Scorpio listened, he told me something that produced a switch inside me.

It was a turning point for me. I realized I'm pushing him and the relationship away... and it wasn't what I wanted, because I loved him and I wanted us to be together. I discovered, the fighting came on one side from my need to fight because in my previous relationship it was like that all the time, I got used to that dynamic for so many years... so I went on repeating it. On the other side, from other personal old stories I had to go back to work through... For me, the moment I decided to work on myself, everything changed... even he changed, not only me. Now we still fight sometimes, but it's different and very rare event, but even so the quality of it changed... it's not hurting or damaging anymore.

This was my experience and I thought maybe something from here can help you shed a light on your relationship and find a way to make it work. Good luck & Much love <3

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@calliope Inlove  

Thank you so much for your hopeful and heartfelt message. We need more people like you! 

P.S. His father has returned from the hospital and his back home with my boyfriend. 

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