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Why do people hate themselves?

Libra Noir
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Hes 13. He knows Im into astrology and thinks its weird. And yes, there is a personal element to this for him. I told him that you cant always depend on love from others so you have to give it to yourself, then it would never be lacking. 

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Libra Noir
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Right, you are making yourself the judge and jury. Its really not our right to do anything but love ourselves. 

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Libra Noir
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Im gonna contemplate this, its deep. It might take me a few years to fully grasp lol. Thank you! 

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Libra Noir
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Interesting thank you

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In my case, with my Sun and Moon inside the 12 house, there was a lot of hate which came from a place of un-forgiveness for my own actions and thoughts... I worked very much with therapy, yoga, heart and love meditations so that inner little girl gets the affection and understanding that did not have back then.

From my own childhood, I learnt that it would have helped me to have someone tell me that it's ok, that I am loved and understood even if I did mistakes, that they are part of the process of growing up... 

As you mentioned your son is 13, I remembered my own childhood and I think it's wonderful to have this conversation between you two: mother and son. heart

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Thank you:) That means a lot to me. I told him that I still make mistakes. That I dont know everything but that Ill share every shred of knowledge that I have. 

Also, I think its great that you took responsibility for your own happiness. Its rare these days, I admire it. 

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