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Tuesday, May 9, 2017 - 11:11 am
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basing on my bad relationship stories, and almost no love life i am asking that question.

this is my chart

thank you for the answer/

one year ago i posted this thread in some polish astrology forum. people told me that it will be a huge change in 2017 that my behaviour will change and so one. because 27 is some weird age.

what do you think?

its not that im waiting for a sudden change. but i just live with no expectations.

IM A LIFE OBSERVER NOW. PASSIVE. BEFORE I HAVE BEEN ACTIVE- NOW I FEEL LIKE I DONT NEED TO HAVE ANYONE, EVEN SOMETIMES I DO NOT WEAR MAKE UP, I DO NOT CARE/

pls. maybe there si something written in my chart that tells that i wont have anyone, or i am blocked or i will not have anyone in poland?

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Actually, around 28 years old would be the huge change, because that is around the time of the Saturn Return. In your case, your Saturn return might not be until 2019, and it's representative of when you're personality becomes solidified or you become a real adult. You'll be challenged to be authentic to your character.

As for your love life, Venus conjunct Mars is a pretty good placement. It generally means what you get and what you want are the same. Venus is also in the 7th, which is where Venus likes to be.

Now, looking at sign placement of Venus, the house placement of Mars, and the rest of the chart, you can have some challenges. You want (Mars) love (Venus) where you have freedom (Aquarius). But you also want a relationship that is deep (Venus sq. Pluto) and this placement can indicate power struggles in relationships.

You also have a lot of independent placements (Aries Sun, Capricorn Moon) that indicate you really like (Venus) to do (Mars) whatever you want (Aquarius), and this can also cause conflict (Mars) in relationships (Venus, 7th), since you may not want to compromise? You may also have a desire to control others (Aries, Capricorn), when people don't like to be controlled.

If you take a conscious effort to look at your bad relationships and yourself, you will be able to find a good relationship. You like a challenge (Mars) in relationships (Venus), and while that is fine, you can seek (Venus) a challenge (Mars) by getting into a bad relationship, or even creating a bad relationship through your own behavior (Venus-Pluto). You will have to work (Mars) for a good, transformative (Pluto) relationship (Venus) that gives you the space (Aquarius) you desire, but I think you'll like the challenge (Aries Sun).

Remember, you generally get what you want (Venus conj. Mars), so if you are conscious of what you want, the universe will oblige you. You are not doomed, and I believe that there is someone out there for everyone, if they want someone. There is nothing in your chart that will say you are blocked or will never have a relationship with anyone.

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Better to wait for the RIGHT someone than to settle for the wrong one.

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Oh, I don't know. If the wrong one is sexy he can feel like the right one for several hours. LOL

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I have venus in 7th house libra well aspected but my love life is zero! Never had a relationship and I am older than you. I also have mars in libra conjunct my dc. In my opinion a good venus in natal chart does not mean luck in love life. Sometimes I think I've gotten used to being alone. Wish you all the best!

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rose.daughter said
I have venus in 7th house libra well aspected but my love life is zero! Never had a relationship and I am older than you. I also have mars in libra conjunct my dc. In my opinion a good venus in natal chart does not mean luck in love life. Sometimes I think I've gotten used to being alone. Wish you all the best!  

Seems likely that both you and m_arion are essentially looking for someone to do your Venuses and Marses FOR you. You'd be looking for a tasteful seducer and m_arion might be looking for a hot um, flake. (And m_arion has Pluto in the 5th which seems likely to be kinda drastic when it comes to dating.)

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['And they're supposed to sweep you off your feet, etc. etc.']

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max said

Seems likely that both you and m_arion are essentially looking for someone to do your Venuses and Marses FOR you. You'd be looking for a tasteful seducer and m_arion might be looking for a hot um, flake. (And m_arion has Pluto in the 5th which seems likely to be kinda drastic when it comes to dating.)

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['And they're supposed to sweep you off your feet, etc. etc.']  

 

hm i dont understand if someone would do my venus and mars for me. like someone should be so cool that i woudl die for him? love for the 1st sight?

and i dont understand the word 'flake' . 

im not english native speaker i apologise 😛

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Hello,

i just want to ask why 'ex' keeps liking my pics?

It was not a serious relationship but he ended me treating me very badly. After 2 years when I made new friends, when I am abroad for an exchange, when he saw that I am a good worker, a nice, feminine girl that even his friends likes me - he started liking my pics again.

 

The same for my sister- 2 years ago she was dating some guy. But he ended up in a real relationship with a 5 year older woman who just 'took' him from my sister. And he was like a 'doll' didnt have his own opinion , didnt even say anything to my sister- just left. Even was kissing the new woman in front of my sister...

After 2 years he started liking my sister pics again like nothing would happen. Why? Because its already been 2 years? They only have been dating?

 

I do not know how is that for a man's mind. Why did my ex start liking my pictures - we do not have contact, i deleted him from instagram, he keeps liking from other account..

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Tuesday, May 16, 2017 - 8:02 am
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Some people are game-y, @m_arion

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Tuesday, May 16, 2017 - 8:28 am
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Elsa said
Some people are game-y, @m_arion  

what does it mean @Elsa?

that they are players?

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I have also other question not concerning the love relationship but friendship, other relations in general.

 

For like 2-3 years i have felt that i had to prove myself to people that claimed that were my friends. I was still a student struggling with 'an adult life' i was kind of a disorganised, but had other people around. I had other friends, like my ex and his friends that have already graduated a few years ago, had a lot of work around, were freelancers, kind of popular. I was still at the university environment.

 

When i became popular in their environment they started to talk to me.

I have always felt i needed to prove myself to them because i was not enough. For girls, boys- they had other topics, were treating me like a baby- because for example they had cars and well payed job ( already) and i was still doing internships...

I felt that even to have a friendship with them i needed to proove myself. they didnt take me as i was.. i always take people as they are...

 

i completly cut contacts with my ex and thos attention w***hores from that group. rwhen right now i am abroad i started doing something like internship ( because its obligatory) i finished my studies, they started " approving me".

 

like i would need an validation from some people. i felt so bad last 2 years because i felt that i was not enough to them and they didnt want to be friends with me because i was a student or still without a well payed job and so one.

 

when i cut them from my life they are coming back 😉 

because i 'organised myself'. i am an 'adult now' in their eyes...

 

should i care? no, they do not exist to me.

what if they want to have contact again? nothing i will walk away...

 

but please tell me, why people behave like that? 😉 why you need an validation, an approval from them? because you are not that 'level' yet at work or in an SOCIAL circle?

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pls tell me 😉

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I think Elsa meant that some people like to play games with people. Yes, like players in a way.

Feeling (Moon) you need to prove yourself and be an adult (Capricorn/Saturn) would be your Capricorn Moon conj. Saturn. You will have these feelings everywhere you go to some degree. If you encountered people who reflect what you feel, it wouldn't be surprising if you were drawn to them because they were reflecting what you felt (familiar). Mars in the 7th conj. Venus would ask you to assert yourself in relationships, if you don't already do.

People usually behave like that because they feel pressure themselves, so they try to hold everyone else to the same standards. They may also have poor self-esteem and feel the need to put others down in order to feel good.

I'm glad that you handled it.

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Teresina said
I think Elsa meant that some people like to play games with people. Yes, like players in a way.

Feeling (Moon) you need to prove yourself and be an adult (Capricorn/Saturn) would be your Capricorn Moon conj. Saturn. You will have these feelings everywhere you go to some degree. If you encountered people who reflect what you feel, it wouldn't be surprising if you were drawn to them because they were reflecting what you felt (familiar). Mars in the 7th conj. Venus would ask you to assert yourself in relationships, if you don't already do.

People usually behave like that because they feel pressure themselves, so they try to hold everyone else to the same standards. They may also have poor self-esteem and feel the need to put others down in order to feel good.

I'm glad that you handled it.  

Some people are so game-y that I beat them at their own game. I don't believe they get to complain and moan when someone, even if it's not me, beats them at Chess.

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Some people are so game-y that I beat them at their own game. I don't believe they get to complain and moan when someone, even if it's not me, beats them at Chess.  

i have never wanted to play any games.

 

i always wanted to live my life . i know people come and go but for some of them its very important to stick in one group... everyone gossips and so one but they stick in one group, change partners in that group like in a family.

and i have always been outside because i didnt want to stick to any group rule. thats hilarious to me.

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m.arion, me neither.  Please know, from someone a lot older than you, that there are many more who share the values you expressed in your reply (#14) than you might think.

In fact, when you meet people who share your same values, they are as happy that life brought you together as you are.  Happy to have the good fortune, to have the opportunity to know one another better.

When you meet such people - shared values between you - my advice to you (you don't need it, I'm simply taking this opportunity to share what I've learned) cherish them, lightly, generously, freely with no strings attached.  Good people, and good friends, are a gift.  As you are, to them!  smile

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