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What is the hardest aspect bond in synastry to break?
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Misti
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Sharon Tate and Eva Braun…interesting. And they had horrible deaths. I’ve always had this irrational fear that a husband or boyfriend would murder me. One night with the ex-boyfriend (Cap-Taurus) I had a nightmare that he was about to stab me. The nightmare was so real. We were in our real bed. Extremely vivid. I cried out in my sleep and he consoled me. I had nightmares a lot, actually. He would reach for my hand and have me repeat the Lord’s Prayer after him, line after line. He’s Catholic. I was brought up Baptist. I don’t know what the hell I am now but I’m meditating and going to a Buddhist center on an infrequent basis. I don’t have a frame of reference for the twelfth house as mine is empty. It’s ruled by Leo. The only Leo flavor I have to my chart is Mars and Jupiter in the fifth. Lots of aspects to those planets, though.

I was so interested in their biography when i got into astrology. :D I thought wow, at least astrology also links to historical biographies and relationship/dynamics. Eva Braun and Hitler were both dominant earth/air, and some astrologers think, even some speculations that Hitler had affairs on the side, but i dont think so at all. He may have been a monster, but going deep, he was very loyal. He was even quoted that Ms. Braun is the only woman for me.

She had a horrible death yes, but it as HER choice. At the end, Hitler let her go, and told her to go live her life, (if he had any love for anyone, it was her) and she said, no way, she would die with him, but of course, finally she wanted marriage. So they married and committed suicide. It was even said in the story that Joseph Goebbel’s wife was introduced by Hitler because Magna Quandt, wanted Hilter and was interested in him. Hitler directed her to Goebel (both are Scorpio suns). But Joseph Goebbel was not faithful, monogamous (had affairs) and was in love with a Virgo woman. Hitler sent her secretly away because Joseph wanted to marry her. Alot of interesting stories in that arena. go read up on it :D

As for Sharon Tate, that was extremely tragic. i Always thought that if she had lived, that Polanski’s shadow side would not be “triggered”.  Like her lifeforce was the one that continued to keep him from going insane. (they say that there is a fine line between madness and genius or something).

That’s extremely weird, Misti. Maybe he believed the devil would go into your dreams. eek Or maybe that’s just a projection of your own fears.

Will look into those relationships further. They sound fascinating. My son was spending the night with me and the ex once and he put on his devil mask and shook his pitchfork. The ex made me put the mask and pitchfork in the trunk of my car. “I don’t want that stuff in my house,” he said. He was very serious about El Diablo.

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AriesChick said
Just saw a video with Keith Urban discussing his marriage to Nicole Kidman.  Found their charts

http://sasstrology.com/2009/11…..venus.html

i like to look on YouTube. :)   their interactions together.

well, Dylan McDermott seems to only marry Air suns. lol same with Johnny Lee Miller. McDermott is marrying Maggie Q., a Gemini, and Miller has been married twice. (he’s got a ton of libra in 7th – dominant air/water) He’s double water. (sun and moon) His wife is gem sun/Leo moon.

@misti, well astrology is considered messing with the dark side. :P J.K Rowling had a problem with Christians when writing her 7 books of Harry Potter. She used astrology in her characters, remember?

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I still haven’t read Rowling! I need to, already. Yes, the last few months of my senior year of high school (I attended three different high schools my senior year) I attended a Christian school in a small German town (well, a Texas town settled by Germans…most of the people in that town are white…Hitler’s Aryan wet dream! blonde hair/blue eyes…creeped me the fuck out!) and I told one of the little kids (it was a one-room schoolhouse like Little House On The Prairie, I was the only senior) about astrology and the principal found out and came to my house (!!!) and gave me this big ass lecture about how astrology is anti-Christian. I just nodded and smiled and went along with her and kept studying astrology and applying it to my life.

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Misti said
I still haven’t read Rowling! I need to, already. Yes, the last few months of my senior year of high school (I attended three different high schools my senior year) I attended a Christian school in a small German town (well, a Texas town settled by Germans…most of the people in that town are white…Hitler’s Aryan wet dream! blonde hair/blue eyes…creeped me the fuck out!) and I told one of the little kids (it was a one-room schoolhouse like Little House On The Prairie, I was the only senior) about astrology and the principal found out and came to my house (!!!) and gave me this big ass lecture about how astrology is anti-Christian. I just nodded and smiled and went along with her and kept studying astrology and applying it to my life.

What a egotistical asshole. :.ducks:.

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Julia said
Sunny, that’s a boatload of pluto! Im super curious.. how long did it take you to get over that one?  

Just found this Julia, you there? lol

Time warp reading this… took me a better part of 6 months. They knocked on my door 2+ years later (not literally). I didn’t answer, well, because of the vacuum effect. M.u.s.t s.t.a.y a.w.a.y

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Wow, over 85,000 views…that’s a lot.  I don’t have much to add to this thread, sorry, I was just pointing that out.

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Wow, I haven’t studied this aspect of astrology in detail, yet. So much new land to explore!

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Saturn stuff, as others have mentioned. You can tear down a structure made of brick stone, and cement. It won’t be easy in the slightest.

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saturn and/or pluto conjunct sun or ascendant

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Saturn conjunct SN in synastry.

Saturn could be the person’s strongest point or weakest link so it all depends on the level of maturity for the Saturn person. Then there’s the superglue effect, and despite karma being over-lived throughout lifetimes there’s that emotional glue. 

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Pluto/Venus bonds for sure. I’ve been involved with that particular aspect in synastry twice and it’s tough to let go. The first one involved my Pluto trining a guy’s Venus and the second one, and I guess the current one, involves the guy’s Pluto trining both my Venus and Moon. 

I suspect the reason it is tough to let go in Pluto/Venus synastry is due to obsession. I’m a Scorpio rising so it’s easy for me to obsess. However I am still a bit confused on who gets obsessed in those connections. Resources I’ve come across says it’s usually Venus who becomes obsessed and with that first Pluto/Venus connection, he wasn’t obsessed at all. This time I am Venus and I am definitely enamored by Pluto. It doesn’t help there’s Mars/Mars, Mars/Venus, Mars/Moon, and Sun/Venus synastry involved as well.

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I think it’s a Soul to Soul connection.

So the question becomes; where, which planet/house is the Soul?

Find that, and the synastry will likely be hard to break.

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I’d say Saturn closely conjunct Sun or Moon is hard to break…

Also, in my experience the nodes conjunct or square Asc/Dsc or Sun or Moon are pretty hard to break too…

Not impossible to break…just a lengthy process to break…and the person is on your mind, on and off, for life…I think

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I think it could be the angles, angles in aspect to angles or planets in conj or square with angles, definitely saturn and pluto.

 

I once had NN conj Venus dw, and it was hard, since there weren’t much aspects to cover all that desire, sun/moon was there too, conjuncted venuses too. I still remember him, and I don’t even remember the other guy who WANTED me after I broke up with this NNVenus guy, although we had fantastic,fabulous,majestic synastry and composite the one who even after 5 years after we had met told me he cared about me (and I think he still did, at the time) and had remembered all the little details I have forgot!! So i think is really sad to give all the credits to this DW NN/Venus guy, because it was exhausting and unfulfilling relationship.

but I think there must be a lot of other interaspects to make it juicier, to make a story out of it, because each aspect makes something happen, so the more aspects the more things that keep you together.

 

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