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Unending Love with Scorpio Man
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Thursday, January 10, 2019 - 11:11 pm
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Yes, I started out with Lily and it confused me, as did the astrogers community horary forum…ugh.  Frawley is much easier to understand.  It did take some getting used to though because the method Frawley uses with regard to receptions between significators is backward from Lilys.  But, yes I love horary…I use it every time I have a question weighing on my mind. Ive used it for relationship questions, job questions, school questions, grades, lost objects, you name it.  

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2A2A984A-BD4A-4B8A-ADCA-24644EBD5916.jpegI’m at this crossroad this new year, where I want to be better and let go of anything that does not bring light into my life. Yet, at the same time, when I thought I was able to cut myself off from this Scorpio man (we’ve had an on again, off again thing for 6 years now. I don’t know why, but I feel as though he and I will always somehow be in each of our lives. I think this is a lesson in terms of respecting myself and loving myself and letting go of things not meant for me. Yet, he texted me a photo today of this painting I made and gave to him when we first were going out. He still has it and I’ve totally forgotten that I gave him this. He just moved into his new house and is probably going to place this somewhere. This one gesture really pulls at my heartstrings. I’ve also been having a lot of dreams about him lately for some reason. 

Can anyone please analyze our synastry chart and let me know what is so special about this man that is so hard for me to let go of? 

Thanks! 

  

I know this feeling, I had it before with a man whose birth time is unknown, so no synastry behind to explain the glue between us, but even without it I felt it was karmic. 

It takes great strength to move on from someone/ something that sticks to you like skin to your flesh. I was unable to do it, he left me… and I was grateful for it in the end because I couldn’t do it. 

Good luck to you, Lila, whatever you’ll decide!

Much light to you heart

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Thursday, January 10, 2019 - 6:53 pm
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Thank you so much, girl! ♥️ What was his sign sun and placements? And what are yours? 

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Lila, I just want you to know I am wishing you the best, and the romantic in me wishes that if he is the one, things turn around for the better, and if he isnt the one that you find someone to cherish and apprecaite all you have to offer.  Best wishes to you.

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Aww, thanks girl!! ♥️😊 My mom always would say what’s yours is only yours. So I guess we shall see. Thanks for all your help and well wishes! 

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Thank you so much, girl! ♥️ What was his sign sun and placements? And what are yours? 

  

I’m a Virgo sun and he was the same. I have Libra Rising and he had Venus in Libra. I notice I attract Venus Libras very much and I really like this connection.

But there are not aspects that sustain the strong bond I felt. Maybe with a known birth time yes. Anyway, I have Virgo on the cusp of the 12 house, his Sun must have touched that area… he seemed to see me better than I could, he really pushed me towards digging things about myself I had no idea they are there… However, this is not based on synastry, just my logic 🙂

It’s good to take astrology into account, but also listen to your heart heart 

Best of luck!

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Wow, that sounds like a very tight connection that you both had with each other. I understand how you feel about how the other person can see who you are and all. My Scorpio has this piercing gaze that feels like it goes into the center of my soul. When he looks at me, I feel lost into his eyes. Like all my vulnerability is showing clear as day to his eyes. 

At least you were able to hopefully learn more about yourself. But yes, astrology sometimes is irrelevant to how you feel. 

Thanks!

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Yes, I started out with Lily and it confused me, as did the astrogers community horary forum…ugh.  Frawley is much easier to understand.  It did take some getting used to though because the method Frawley uses with regard to receptions between significators is backward from Lilys.  But, yes I love horary…I use it every time I have a question weighing on my mind. Ive used it for relationship questions, job questions, school questions, grades, lost objects, you name it.  

  

Great, thanks a lot laugh I can’t wait to start laugh I really break my head with so many books and interpretations on horary that make it impossible to understand! I need light and understanding on this topic as I really love horarylaugh

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UPDATE: I found out I was born around 6-10AM. Most likely around 7AM, so my birth chart is not the same as I thought it was before. Can anyone review our updated synastry chart and let me know what you think?

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Thanks, Elisa! ♥️ I hear bad stuff about Scorpio men and good things as well. They are one of my sore points though, as you may be able to tell here. 🤫 Yeah, I have a Taurus Venus. Just a month ago or so, I found out my birth time may be around 7AM ish and then I pulled that chart and saw that my planets house placements changed and I was like OMG, I’m not who I thought I was lol. Kinda a mini astro identity crisis. So I repulled my synastry with this Scorpio man (with his unknown birth time and my assumed 7AM birth time) to see if we have any special configurations. But I don’t know. I was hoping to see a yod or anything special that may indicate some interesting pull for us. 

I love to talk about romance related things so I’m just like you haha. 😉♥️ He is very focused on his work/job now. He’s bought his own townhouse at the age of 39. He’s still continuously texting me from time to time to see if I’m interested in hanging out or fucking. I was done with him at a point before where I stopped answering his calls. But he was calling me everyday then and I couldn’t take that so I eventually answered him via text. I recently had a very intense sexual dream about him where we were in his bedroom on his bed tenderly kissing and touching each other desperately. After that, I realize how much he consumes my heart and soul like a person’s need for water. 

It’s twisted how none of this is even a sign of a healthy relationship, yet I can’t quit him. It’s been almost 6 years of our back and forth. Oddly enough, our story is quite similar to Sex and the City’s Carrie and Big’s relationship. I’m waiting for the breaking point or something that feels like our “relationship” is completely severed or we start something real. 

Sorry for my long rant. I could write a book about our story lol. 

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I’m sorry you have to deal with this type of Scorpio. The Scorpio men I’ve met are not generally the back and forth type, are straightforward when confronted to make things clear – when I told them I want a committed relationship and not just hanging around, they took it or left it. I don’t have energy for playing games and waiting around until Scorpios make up their minds – and geeeez some of them can be so in between decisions sometimes… although many times I have the feeling they actually know very well what they want, but expect you to play by their game or maybe think you don’t realize yet it’s their game… something like that.

I was involved in a loooong flirt with a Scorpio man who was I guess was indecisive about me… many years ago… nothing came out of it. It became in the end so torturing for me that I just left it there. Got a Leo Venus conjunct Mars, I crave attention and affection. I just couldn’t take it anymore…

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